The Gift of Forgiveness by Dr. Charles Stanley
“Whatever
your situation, whatever has happened in your past, remember that you are the
loser if you do not deal with an unforgiving spirit. And the people around you
suffer, too. You have within you the power to forgive, to be healed, and to be
set free to live your life to the fullest.” This is on the back jacket to Dr.
Stanley’s book, Put the past behind you and give…
The
Gift of Forgiveness.
“Forgiveness
is ‘the act of setting someone free from an obligation to you that is a result
of a wrong done against you.’ …Forgiveness involves three elements: injury,
a debt resulting from the injury, and a cancellation of the debt.
All three elements are essential if forgiveness is to take place…A person who
harbors unforgiveness always loses.
Through
His name everyone who believes in Him receives forgiveness of sins (Acts
10:43)…Christ is God’s solution for dealing with sin. Only through Christ can
we find forgiveness. But once it has been found it is a settled issue-past sin,
present sin, and future sin. The details of what we have done, why we did it,
and how many times we did it are irrelevant. Sin is sin; lost is lost; paid is
paid; forgiven is forgiven. Either we have it, or we don’t… Forgiveness is
available only to the man or woman who has put personal trust in Christ…God’s
gift of forgiveness must be appropriated; that is, it must be accepted on an
individual basis…
Settle in
your mind once and for all that your sins are forgiven; that God is in no way
holding them against you; that from His perspective, they are no longer
obstacles to fellowship.
…Begin to
view your past failures as a reminder of God’s grace…Your past sins should
become memorials to the grace of God in life. When Satan accuses you of being
unworthy because of things you have done in the past, you can respond by saying
(and I recommend actually speaking out loud). ‘That is exactly right. I did do
that, and that’s not all. But before I ever committed my first sin Jesus Christ
died and paid for my sins-not just the ones you have reminded me of-all of
them. Now they stand in my past as memorials, reminders, of God’s goodness and
grace toward me. Thanks for the reminder.’..This is a confession of truth…
…God wants
to take any emotional stumbling block out of the way and flood you with the
assurance of His forgiveness and acceptance. He wants you to live with a sense
of security and intimacy with Him.”
Dr. Stanley
writes of forgiveness with Luke 15:11-24 as a Biblical reference. The following
are just the highlights of the explanatory paragraphs in chapter five Our
Forgiving Father.
- Our heavenly Father’s love has no limits.
- Our heavenly Father’s love is patient.
- God is eager to express His love.
- God the Father’s attitude is that His focus in on the sinner, not the sin…You are His focus.
- God receives the sinner back into fellowship joyfully.
“When any
child of God turns from sin, God rejoices. If it is possible to assign emotions
to the heavenly Father, He ‘feels’compassion for you and therefore experiences
joy at your homecoming. He does not wrestle with feelings of hurt and jealousy.
He has dealt with that once and for all. Instead, He identifies with your hurt
and frustration and takes joy in seeing you set free…
…You have a
heavenly Father who is free to identify with your situation and who takes great
joy in seeing you restored to your rightful place as His child. Your forgiving
Father’s greatest concern is you, not your sin. His focus is on you and
your willingness to comply with His will for your life.
Heavenly Father,
Sometimes it is
difficult for me to see You as You really are. By faith in the testimony of
Jesus, however, I accept You as my forgiving heavenly Father.
A Father who love me
with unlimited love;
A Father whose
patience is inexhaustible;
A Father who is eager
to have fellowship with me;
A Father who focuses
on me and my position as Your child, not on my sin;
A Father who rejoices
when I turn to You from my sin, whether it be one single act or a season of
rebellion.
Expose the errors in
my thinking toward You and fill me with the truth, for I know that in
discovering the truth I will be set free. Amen.”